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Merry Christmas!

Posted in Books & Articles, Kids, Pastoral Ministry, Uncategorized on December 24, 2008 by benfeldott

Merry Christmas Friends:

In the world of church ministry – Christmas is a crush of scheduling and activities (that is my excuse for not posting since Thanksgiving!) – but ultimately it is worth it for the chance to communicate the message of  “The Birth” to a world that for a moment is a bit more receptive.  This years Christmas Celebration can still be seen on-line at www.capecodchurch.com/teachings and has been viewed over 4000 times in the last week!

Now for a bit more of restful time – I am looking forward to sitting back with our family for the few days – enjoying some “Ben & Bills” Chocolates – reading a few good books (Clive Cusslers “Arctic Drift” & Malcom Gladwells  “Outliers” )

I am looking forward to 2009!  Times of societal and economic uncertainty are perfect opportunities for God to show Himself strong. But before we get to 2009 – a deep breath of family and refreshment as we celebrate Christmas together.

Merry Christmas!

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Speaking to a Blue State (of Mind)… (4 Questions for Discussion)

Posted in Communication, Culture, Evangelism, Pastoral Ministry, Politcs & Issues, Preaching & Communication on November 17, 2008 by benfeldott

Below are 4 questions to engage a discussion about church, culture, ministry, and leadership.  Think it through and share your own thoughts by posting a response!

Question #1Who are we speaking to?

Who is the audience the church is seeking to speak too? How much of what we do is really preaching to the choir – carrying on conversations with those who already think pretty much like us anyway? Are people resistant to us – or to the message?

What do you think?

BF Thoughts: While we say we are reaching out to the larger “secular” culture it seems much of our (Evangelical Church) evangelistic thrust is towards people and regions of people who believe like we do politically and socially (but perhaps not fully spiritually). No doubt these people are more receptive but are we truly engaging the culture. Check out the book “The Big Sort”  with an eye toward how the Red/Blue political map coincides with the Evangelical movement in America.

Question #2 How do we convey authenticity?

How do we communicate authenticity – how does the “contemporary church” avoid coming across as contrived – a caricature of itself.  We all know authenticity when we see it – but what does it look like in the Church, in Christians, in Leaders?

BF Thoughts: Nothing worse than “being fake” – If the traditional church runs the risk of becoming and antique then the “Progressive Church” runs the risk of becoming a caricature of itself.  Where we accentuate the accessories of ministry – where “Hipness seems like marketing” – where “technology trumps substance” – where “music feels disconnected from worship”. With all of our accessories authenticity can seem like an afterthought.

Question #3 How do we address Politics?

Ikes – can’t believe I am even going here – so play nice! How can the church address the issues of the culture in a way that is above petty policy and candidates. How do we preserve our primary mandate of sharing the transformative message of the gospel. How is the role of the church different than the role of the individual believer?

BF Thoughts: People often object to “our” Politics (Policies and Politicians) more than our Savior – but in the midst of proclaiming “our” politics we lose the moment to declare our Savior. I am of the mind that the church is the ultimate earthly center for right and wrong – the place for moral authority – the proclaimer of  the ideas that policy makers need to make their case. But let them embrace us without us endorsing them. In the end I believe the source of societal transformation is the church -  If I thought it was in Politics I would have become a politician instead of a preacher. There is a valuable place for Christians to influence our society and government – but the church is not a PAC but rather God’s earthly agency for proclamation of salvation which leads to transformation.

Question #4 Where does communication count most in ministry?

Our ministry is all about “communicating” a 2000 year old message that is the difference between Heaven and Hell.  How we communicate in every area of ministry makes an eternal difference – where do you see vital communication taking place in your ministry and in the Church?

BF Thoughts: In ministry work God has chosen (the foolishness of ) “Preaching” to communicate His message – so that is tops of my list. Next down to me would be “Leadership Communication” where we – receive a vision, communicate a goal, then present a plan to the goal.

Ok – take your pick – or pick them all and share your thoughts and comments using the comment feature!

Welcome to benfeldott.com

Posted in Communication, Culture, Evangelism, Pastoral Ministry, Preaching & Communication on August 2, 2008 by benfeldott

Welcome to my world! – actually its your world too! I am talking about the culture we live and minister in – this blog is all about culture, communication, and vibrant Christianity. A few years back, when Tammy and I were just getting started at Cape Cod Church we were at a “Pastors” conference somewhere in the deep south – on an elevator ride we got talking to another ministry couple – I asked the obligatory “where you from?” and our elevator partners responded “Alabama – how about you?”  to which I responded, “Massachusetts”. Without missing a beat Mr. Alabama responded “Oh, Missionaries?” :-)

That was an important conversation – a reminder of what we ALL really are – Missionaries!

There is a lot of chatter about the secular society we live in  (especially in places like MA -  which are envisioned as more secular that most – but more on that in a moment) – here is why it matters – what we broadly define as the secular culture is precisely the group that God loves and has called us to love as well.  A major component in that “love” is understanding who we are reaching out to.  For all of our talk about reaching our culture – most of it is just talk – simply because our understanding of the culture is jaundiced.   We filter our world into 2 groups – “Our Guys” and “Those Guys” ….then, and here is the kicker…we do ministry that only speaks to “Our Guys” operating on the assumption that “Those Guys” are so alien that only the random exception is reachable.

16 Years here on Cape Cod have shown me a few things about “Those Guys”….

1. Most aren’t as “liberal” as you think they are. (Politics is a weak indicator of spiritual receptivity)
2. Some are looking for a “Hypocrisy Fight” (at the first whiff – your done!)
3. They are afraid you might be like the “ones” they read about in the NY Times (Don’t be the caricature !)
4. They are quicker to embrace Christ than the Christian sub-culture (Separating the two takes wisdom and courage)
5. Fear, Insecurity and dysfunction are universal (We all have it – be honest about yours and they will let you help them with theirs)

Ok – thats my contribution….Lets hear what do you have to add?